SOME TIPS FOR LIFE.......

"Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success."

*~ In prosperity, our friends know us & in adversity, we know our friends. *

*Anger is a condition in which *
The tongue works faster than the mind .

*You can't change the past, *
but you can ruin the present By worrying over the future

*Love...and you shall be loved. *

*All people smile in the same language. *

*Everyone needs to be loved... *
especially when they do not deserve it.

*The real measure of a man's wealth *
is what he has invested in eternity.


*Thank God for what you have, *
TRUST GOD for what you need.

*If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow, *
you have no today to be thankful for.

*The choice you make today *
will usually affect tomorrow.

*Take time to laugh, for it is *
the music of the soul.

* Harsh words break no bones *
but they do break hearts.

*To get out of a difficulty, *
one usually must go through it.

*We take for granted the things *
that we should be giving thanks for.

*Love is the only thing that can be *
divided without being diminished.

*Happiness is enhanced by others *
but does not depend upon others.

*For every minute you are angry with someone, *
you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.

90/10 Principle for Happy Life...

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Health - Important Tips

Answer the phone by LEFT ear .
Do not drink coffee TWICE a day.
Do not take pills with COOL water.
Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm.
Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume.
Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night.
Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS .
Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time.
Best sleeping time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning.
Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping.
When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times.

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Discover the 90/10 Principle.
It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).

What is this principle?

10% of life is made up of what happens to you.
90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.

We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.

We have no control over this 10%.

You determine the other 90%.

How?

By your reaction.

You cannot control a red light but you can control your reaction.

An example...

You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.

What happens next will be determined by how you react.

You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table.

A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt.

Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school.

She misses the bus.

Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit zone.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.

When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.

Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is "D".

You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.

Here is what could have and should have happened.

Coffee splashes over you.
Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its OK honey, you just need to be more careful next time".

Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After changing a new shirt and picking your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus.

She turns and waves.

You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.

Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same way but ended differently.

Why? Because the way you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens.
The other 90% was determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.

If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge.
Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!

React properly and it will not ruin your day.
A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?

Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? Do you curse?
Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?

Who cares if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let traffic ruin your day?

Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.

You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated?


Remember things will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.

The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day.
Why take out the frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.

Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.

Now you know the 90-10 principle.
Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.

The result?

Millions of people are relieved from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.

Happy Week End

Love - Its Beautiful

How do you define love?

Some say it's mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable. Perhaps.
"Love is a feeling directed at someone which acknowledges their goodness."
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
"To describe love is very difficult, for the same reason that words cannot fully describe the flavor of an orange. You have to taste the fruit to know its flavor. So with love."
Love itself is a universal experience. Yet, every individual occurrence - while perhaps bound by a common thread - seems absolutely unique. Love is what love is! To everyone it expresses itself differently.
Love is the answer to "all" questions!
It is important to stand in Love, not fall into it.
Love is waking up to find the object of your affection in the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder.
Could it be that Love is a story that can never be fully expressed?
Love is a bond or connection between two people that results in trust, intimacy, and an interdependence that enhances both partners.
Love is the ability and willingness to allow those you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you.
When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they won't Love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still Love you, they Love you even more.
Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.
Logic says everything in this world has a cause and an effect. True Love is the only feeling which is its own cause and its own effect. It is something illogical and yet above all logic. I Love her because I Love her, and I Love her so I Love her.
Love is comforting someone in need of Love and having them know that somebody cares.
Love is looking past imperfections in your partner and seeing the beautiful person inside. True love seeks the happiness and well being of your partner. Love expresses itself in the mutual respect you demonstrate to your partner.
Love must be experienced. Its meaning is infinite and can never be totally defined.
The opposite of Love is fear. Think about it.
There is no fear in Love; but perfect love casts out fear.
God is love.
Love is loving someone without expecting anything in return; no judgments, no restrictions; no limitations; no expectations!
True Love is the nature of bliss.
Love is expressed when you are being someone who loves someone for who they are, not who you think they should be.
Love seeks no cause beyond itself and no fruit; it is its own fruit, its own enjoyment. I love because I love; I love in order that I may love.
Teach only Love for that is what you are.
Love is a decision.
If you want Love, you must first Love. Love begets Love. You cannot deliver from an empty wagon. You must first learn to Love yourself before you can give Love.
"If you Loved me, you would. . ." Not! Love is not manipulative. It must never be used to get others to do what you want. When you Love someone you never ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of Love. This form of manipulation contaminates our Love for another.
Can't Buy Me Love!
Love is to like with a great intensity.
True love has a foundation of integrity, respect, faith and trust. Love is the force that brings about unity and harmony.
Although love is at the root of our basic nature, Love for another human being must be cultivated. It takes time for Love to mature.
The road to self-discovery is paved with Love.
Love has no meaning other than the meaning "we" give it.
Perhaps. . . Love just Is. While in its allness and in its nothingness, all we need to do is simply let it Be.
To demonstrate Love. . . say, "I Love you" - outloud - at least once each day to someone you love. There is magic in these three little words. Saying "I love you" is the most beautiful gift you can give to your partner. These words are the most treasured a person can hear.

Selfishness

Have you ever tested your blood? If not try now ! You can see RBC and WBC but there is something called SBC!!! can't find in your report? Its Selfish Blood Corpusels...

Yeah it is more than a cancer more than Aids.... We are selfish at some point of time ! Cos our post, our talent , our admiration by others itself creates this undead cells streaming in to our blood.

Selfishness is an art ! At this stage no one worries about anybody nor think of others they are worried about themselves there money, bankbalance, children etc etc ... no one is wrorried about his colleagues friends nor the person who served him a lot when he or she is in difficulty.... You might get everything in life but if you paint yourself in the form of selfishness you tend to lose even good people around you...

Features of Selfishness:
Argument
Lies for small things
Comparison
Anger
Tend to Act smart
Pointing out Mistakes on somebody for nothing ( I mean Kiddish)

The most thing of Selfishness is that the thing we don't get in time if our colleagues or someone get !we stop prasing them rather than we avoid them... and its a dooms day for them.For instance if we don't have electricity in our house! we come out and see if other house has and we think saying "Each house has UPS, he earning like anything" In that moment we don't think we have to call electricity board and find what the problem is...

In life if you can't reach the foot of God! Try to reach his toe atleast!!