"Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success."
*~ In prosperity, our friends know us & in adversity, we know our friends. *
*Anger is a condition in which *
The tongue works faster than the mind .
*You can't change the past, *
but you can ruin the present By worrying over the future
*Love...and you shall be loved. *
*All people smile in the same language. *
*Everyone needs to be loved... *
especially when they do not deserve it.
*The real measure of a man's wealth *
is what he has invested in eternity.
*Thank God for what you have, *
TRUST GOD for what you need.
*If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow, *
you have no today to be thankful for.
*The choice you make today *
will usually affect tomorrow.
*Take time to laugh, for it is *
the music of the soul.
* Harsh words break no bones *
but they do break hearts.
*To get out of a difficulty, *
one usually must go through it.
*We take for granted the things *
that we should be giving thanks for.
*Love is the only thing that can be *
divided without being diminished.
*Happiness is enhanced by others *
but does not depend upon others.
*For every minute you are angry with someone, *
you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Monday, April 26, 2010
90/10 Principle for Happy Life...
Note- Even a word ,a good line .a good pharse, or motivating line can change anyone’s Life..so keep sharing such with me…so that I will share same with all Respected Professional & Friends
Health - Important Tips
Answer the phone by LEFT ear .
Do not drink coffee TWICE a day.
Do not take pills with COOL water.
Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm.
Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume.
Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night.
Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS .
Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time.
Best sleeping time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning.
Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping.
When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times.
Forward this to those whom you CARE about!
90% of life is decided by how you react.
What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.
We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.
We have no control over this 10%.
You determine the other 90%.
How?
By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light but you can control your reaction.
An example...
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table.
A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt.
Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school.
She misses the bus.
Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit zone.
After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.
When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.
Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is "D".
You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you.
Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its OK honey, you just need to be more careful next time".
Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After changing a new shirt and picking your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus.
She turns and waves.
You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.
Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same way but ended differently.
Why? Because the way you REACTED.
You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens.
The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.
If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge.
Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!
React properly and it will not ruin your day.
A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? Do you curse?
Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?
Who cares if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let traffic ruin your day?
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated?
Remember things will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day.
Why take out the frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.
Now you know the 90-10 principle.
Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.
The result?
Millions of people are relieved from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
Happy Week End
Health - Important Tips
Answer the phone by LEFT ear .
Do not drink coffee TWICE a day.
Do not take pills with COOL water.
Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm.
Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume.
Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night.
Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS .
Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time.
Best sleeping time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning.
Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping.
When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times.
Forward this to those whom you CARE about!
Discover the 90/10 Principle.
It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).
What is this principle?
10% of life is made up of what happens to you.It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations).
What is this principle?
90% of life is decided by how you react.
What does this mean?
We really have no control over 10% of what happens to us.
We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will be late arriving, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.
We have no control over this 10%.
You determine the other 90%.
How?
By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light but you can control your reaction.
An example...
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.
What happens next will be determined by how you react.
You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over.
She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table.
A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt.
Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school.
She misses the bus.
Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit zone.
After a 15-minute delay and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.
When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.
Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the morning.
Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is "D".
You had no control over what happened with the coffee.
How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day.
Here is what could have and should have happened.
Coffee splashes over you.
Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its OK honey, you just need to be more careful next time".
Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After changing a new shirt and picking your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus.
She turns and waves.
You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff.
Your boss comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same way but ended differently.
Why? Because the way you REACTED.
You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens.
The other 90% was determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle.
If someone says something negative about you, don't be a sponge.
Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you!
React properly and it will not ruin your day.
A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Do you lose your temper? Pound on the steering wheel? Do you curse?
Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?
Who cares if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let traffic ruin your day?
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep and get irritated?
Remember things will work out. Use your worrying energy and time into finding another job.
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day.
Why take out the frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse.
Now you know the 90-10 principle.
Apply it and you will be amazed at the results. You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible. Very few know and apply this principle.
The result?
Millions of people are relieved from undeserved stress, trials, problems and heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
Happy Week End
Monday, October 29, 2007
Life and its Realities
When I look back,after a couple of years,
I have completed many of my responsibilities..
Many more of them are becoming a reality.
But when I ask myself, whether they were my dreams
the answer is that, no, it wasn't my dreams.
I had lot of dreams, both professional and personal.
None has come true.
I am enjoying the life around me.
But still, something is missing.
I don't know how to make them come true.
Responsibilities, I know how to tackle them.
But my dreams, it really haunts me.
Otherwise my life is happy.
Achieved many things,more than what I dreamt of, in many cases.
but not my true dreams, which has been holding me back for quite some time.
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Happiness
True happiness could be acquired by surrendering material desires, self-deceit, fear, prejudice, anger, doubt and disbelief.Happiness can not be born out of pleasures of material life......like more cars, alcohol, noisiest celebrations, late-night parties, louder ostentatious weddings, and above all, "No caring and sharing".Happiness comes from absolute peace, joy, contentment, and from absence of inner conflicts.Happiness is definitely connected to Divine aspects, like Prayers, Meditation, and "GIVING WITHOUT EXPECTING ANY BENEFIT IN RETURN".Think Good and Do good.
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Blood Diamond-A True Saga
A movie on quest for diamonds and the craze connected with it. It is a good movie with good thrills, fast paced , beautiful photography and good acting by Djimon Hounsou. This guy has really acted well and outshone lover boy Leonardo dicaprio, who has also put in good performance.
The movie is set in sierra leone civil war in 1999 where a white mercenary Dicaprio finds out that Solomon Vandy (played by Djimon) got a diamond of immense worth working in the mine fields under control of the rebel soldiers. The movie is about Dicaprio's effort to get the diamond from the place where it is hidden and using all he can to get to his goal.
Solomon Vandy is seperated from his family when he was abducted by the Revolutionary united front(RUF) and his only goal is to unite his family back. The movie also deals with child soldiers and the cruelty of the RUF and the government who are only interested in controlling the mine fields. His son in the meantime has been captured by RUF and brain washed in to being a soldier for the revolution.
It is a fast paced thriller though does briefly does touch causes like child soldiers and exploitation of Africa by the white man to satisy the american girls dreams of having a diamond on their finger. It makes you think for a second -if it is worth all the blood spilled to have a diamond on your finger where 50% of marriages any way end in divorce. The human life has no value in such a war filled atmosphere which Dicaprio states in a scene that God must have left africa long ago.
Good movie worth watching on your home video
The movie is set in sierra leone civil war in 1999 where a white mercenary Dicaprio finds out that Solomon Vandy (played by Djimon) got a diamond of immense worth working in the mine fields under control of the rebel soldiers. The movie is about Dicaprio's effort to get the diamond from the place where it is hidden and using all he can to get to his goal.
Solomon Vandy is seperated from his family when he was abducted by the Revolutionary united front(RUF) and his only goal is to unite his family back. The movie also deals with child soldiers and the cruelty of the RUF and the government who are only interested in controlling the mine fields. His son in the meantime has been captured by RUF and brain washed in to being a soldier for the revolution.
It is a fast paced thriller though does briefly does touch causes like child soldiers and exploitation of Africa by the white man to satisy the american girls dreams of having a diamond on their finger. It makes you think for a second -if it is worth all the blood spilled to have a diamond on your finger where 50% of marriages any way end in divorce. The human life has no value in such a war filled atmosphere which Dicaprio states in a scene that God must have left africa long ago.
Good movie worth watching on your home video
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