SOME TIPS FOR LIFE.......

"Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success."

*~ In prosperity, our friends know us & in adversity, we know our friends. *

*Anger is a condition in which *
The tongue works faster than the mind .

*You can't change the past, *
but you can ruin the present By worrying over the future

*Love...and you shall be loved. *

*All people smile in the same language. *

*Everyone needs to be loved... *
especially when they do not deserve it.

*The real measure of a man's wealth *
is what he has invested in eternity.


*Thank God for what you have, *
TRUST GOD for what you need.

*If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow, *
you have no today to be thankful for.

*The choice you make today *
will usually affect tomorrow.

*Take time to laugh, for it is *
the music of the soul.

* Harsh words break no bones *
but they do break hearts.

*To get out of a difficulty, *
one usually must go through it.

*We take for granted the things *
that we should be giving thanks for.

*Love is the only thing that can be *
divided without being diminished.

*Happiness is enhanced by others *
but does not depend upon others.

*For every minute you are angry with someone, *
you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.

Interesting lines worth reading and where ever possible adopting

Jeevan me kamyab hone ke liye 3 factory lagao!!!! 1) Dimag me Ice factory. 2) Zuban par Sugar factory. 3) Dil me Love factory. Phir life hogi satisfactory. . ---------------------------------- Ek din Sagar ne Nadi se pucha: Kab tak milati rahogi mujh khare pani se ??? Nadi ne haskar kaha : Jab tak tujh me mithas na aa jaye tab tak !!! Thats "RELATIONSHIP" . --------------------------------- 1 tree makes 1 Lakh matchsticks. But 1 matchstick can burn 1 Lakh trees. Similarly 1 negative thought or doubt can burn thousands of dreams.... Be Positive Always !!! ----------------------------- Chehre ki hasi se har gam chupao, Bahut kuch bolo par kuch na batao... Khud na rutho kabhi, par sabko manao Ye Raz hai Zindagi ka, Bas Jite chale jao ------------------------------------------------------ Wah Prabhu kya teri leela hai : Chuha Billi se darta hai, Billi Kutte se darti hai, Kutta Aadmi se darta hai, Aadmi Biwi se darta hai, Biwi Chuhhe se darti hai. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- And finally, with thanks to all my email " forwards friends"

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Isn't India a Warehouse of Racism?

Discrimination. That’s the outcome of one of the most loved and hated form of human hatred. Racism. Many love it though. And hate it. Equally.Consciously or unconsciously. Then today human civilization is running its largest race ever run. Run for survival.

Racism practiced all over the world has been an epitome of collective egoism of the structured and conditioned world. For ages. The fire still rages. Change, time, education, evolution, hasn’t done a great deal to heal the wounds of this man-to-man discrimination in form of racism.

Why I chose to write on this?

Racism has raised it head big time over the last few days. Beauty or ugly is only a matter of perception. Cricket. The sport turned game.With the race for racism on, it is cricket obviously on a sticky wicket.

We have news channels leading the public outcry and well-orchestrated emotional provocations. Big time. All in the name of “patriotism”. With Tricolors as the background, racism has shown its true colors yet again.Shameful!! As a collective human family, which I suppose evolved from a
single seed.

While we have experts, columnists, star bloggers, fans and majority opinion chiding mutual “racist” abuses and allegations, without the burden of agreement and disagreement, lets take a step back and look within. It will help looking at the larger issue more objectively,without judgment and stop this ridiculous race of money making on breeding hatred in the name of “racism”. It’s now a big game!! Bigger than all sports together. Game of division.

No one is perfect. It’s a common problem and we are part of it.

India for ages has more reasons for bringing up a “divided society”.Discrimination practiced at the highest order. At the order of elitists.We have perhaps the tallest list of caste, sects and subsects. There has been constant battle with purported racist remarks openly or subtly by
both sides. Extreme acts of the extremists. So called forwards and backwards. Sounds like football or hockey. Isn’t it? It then sticks a completely different kick to people in both forms of “ famous” human emotions. Pain and pleasure.

It has now embedded in human genes over generations. In psychological terms. Then one doesn’t come in terms with these, if conscious. Truly Conscious.

Then we have regionalism, language, state, district, dialect, status, clubs, association, beliefs, religion, education, physical look, outlook and so many reasons. Above all the universal discrimination. The color of the skin. Within the family. With two siblings with different
complexions are exposed to harsh discrimination. Thanks to creams like fair and lovely. More than the illusion of fairness, it promotes faith and hope. Of fairness. In true sense.

Family, schools, institutions, cult leadership and individuals in that order have made the human psyche go out of order for generations now.Suffering from racist discrimination is now a “normal” human behavior.These have also quietly quelled and killed any budding evolution to human equity and being. A space where there is no walls. Then it does makes good news or breaking news all the time for provoking perversions of human mind time and again.

More importantly generates money. Money is perhaps the universal language, which all understand. And its not the money per- se, but” the love of money” that has perpetuated this cardinal sin in several forms and means.

I don’t think anyone living today can be blamed. And that’s not the objective of my thought process and expression.

Wouldn’t it be fair not to hurt each other in the name of any sort of discrimination? Racism included.

Isn’t it fair to stop supporting, sponsoring and practicing by being conscious and aware of the enormous “space for manipulation” we create within ourselves to be influenced and engaged negatively?

No rights and wrongs. No judgment. Its time we start living. In real sense. It’s a race we need to run together, holding each other’s hands as “one human race”. It seems to be a marathon of generations. Then any change happens with one conscious step.

Last word on Cricket.

Lets forgive, forget and get on with the sport. There’s lot to learn, enjoy and flourish with every sport. Cricket included. Discourage discrimination within, without and all around. For tomorrows child.

Friendship

Friendship is like the sea,
Keeps one in unending glee.
Friendship is like the wave,
Sea or shore, lives till the grave.
Friendship is like the boat,
Tries tirelessly to keep afloat.
Friendship is like the ferry,
Helps cross the ocean of worry.
Friendship is like the morning,
Adds to life, a new meaning.
Friendship is like the sky,
Stays through low and high.
Friendship is like the clouds,
Showers joy with no bounds.
Friendship is like the rain,
Wipes and washes away pain.
Friendship is like the greenery,
Forever etched in the memory.
Friendship is like the heartbeat,yaar,
Country,caste, creed or age, no bar.
Friendship is like the dew,
A treasure of only the lucky few.

Love - Its Beautiful

How do you define love?

Some say it's mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable. Perhaps.
"Love is a feeling directed at someone which acknowledges their goodness."
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
"To describe love is very difficult, for the same reason that words cannot fully describe the flavor of an orange. You have to taste the fruit to know its flavor. So with love."
Love itself is a universal experience. Yet, every individual occurrence - while perhaps bound by a common thread - seems absolutely unique. Love is what love is! To everyone it expresses itself differently.
Love is the answer to "all" questions!
It is important to stand in Love, not fall into it.
Love is waking up to find the object of your affection in the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder.
Could it be that Love is a story that can never be fully expressed?
Love is a bond or connection between two people that results in trust, intimacy, and an interdependence that enhances both partners.
Love is the ability and willingness to allow those you care for to be what they choose for themselves, without any insistence that they satisfy you.
When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they won't Love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still Love you, they Love you even more.
Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.
Logic says everything in this world has a cause and an effect. True Love is the only feeling which is its own cause and its own effect. It is something illogical and yet above all logic. I Love her because I Love her, and I Love her so I Love her.
Love is comforting someone in need of Love and having them know that somebody cares.
Love is looking past imperfections in your partner and seeing the beautiful person inside. True love seeks the happiness and well being of your partner. Love expresses itself in the mutual respect you demonstrate to your partner.
Love must be experienced. Its meaning is infinite and can never be totally defined.
The opposite of Love is fear. Think about it.
There is no fear in Love; but perfect love casts out fear.
God is love.
Love is loving someone without expecting anything in return; no judgments, no restrictions; no limitations; no expectations!
True Love is the nature of bliss.
Love is expressed when you are being someone who loves someone for who they are, not who you think they should be.
Love seeks no cause beyond itself and no fruit; it is its own fruit, its own enjoyment. I love because I love; I love in order that I may love.
Teach only Love for that is what you are.
Love is a decision.
If you want Love, you must first Love. Love begets Love. You cannot deliver from an empty wagon. You must first learn to Love yourself before you can give Love.
"If you Loved me, you would. . ." Not! Love is not manipulative. It must never be used to get others to do what you want. When you Love someone you never ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of Love. This form of manipulation contaminates our Love for another.
Can't Buy Me Love!
Love is to like with a great intensity.
True love has a foundation of integrity, respect, faith and trust. Love is the force that brings about unity and harmony.
Although love is at the root of our basic nature, Love for another human being must be cultivated. It takes time for Love to mature.
The road to self-discovery is paved with Love.
Love has no meaning other than the meaning "we" give it.
Perhaps. . . Love just Is. While in its allness and in its nothingness, all we need to do is simply let it Be.
To demonstrate Love. . . say, "I Love you" - outloud - at least once each day to someone you love. There is magic in these three little words. Saying "I love you" is the most beautiful gift you can give to your partner. These words are the most treasured a person can hear.